Reddit family abandoned me because sister blames me for her divorce. 39. No time, no desire, no interest. I had a lot of thing in my apartment, but slowly I've been getting everything in and clearing the 44. She poisoned my life because I started fighting back when she would blame me for things or look through my belongings and now it's evident that she prefers my brother over me. My family Abandoned me because of my sister lying original sound - slim. So my dad left when I was 2, and my mom left when I was 11. I was a high school freshman when all of this happened and, on top of having to move to a different place where I didn't know anyone, I had to step up and help take care of my sister because my mom couldn't do it alone. I called for a divorce and left her with nothing. Lucky for me, he was patient and showed me I could be vulnerable and safe at the same time and reminded me, even when we fought, that he was choosing our relationship and me. Part 1 #fyp #reddit #askreddit #redditstories #redditreadings #minecraft # She was an adult in her 20s when she was contacted by her half sister 18. He wanted her to give her son (a 5 year old) up for adoption. So, I'm new to reddit but a friend recommended this sub for some sound advice. My dad doesn’t know anything about me Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email Out Of Nowhere Explaining Me Everything W Proof. Now I think about her and it doesnt stop my day in any way, I The brief synopsis of the story is that my Mum left our family to live with some dude she worked with when my twin brother and I were 14. Sorry if that came off as harsh at all but think about, them blaming you is like if you dad blamed me for divorce. Mum divorced him for serious reasons she never divulged. 4K Likes, 226 Comments. 171 Likes, TikTok video from reddit317 (@moome317): “Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years later, I Get An Email Out Of Nowhere Explaining Me Everything W/Proof So I RUined Her Life With It #redditreadings #reddit_tiktok #redditstories”. Upon meeting and getting together, my FIL gave my MIL an ultimatum. So I Ruined Her Life They won't even release her because they say she is a flight risk. TL;DR: my depression spiralled out of control after my son turned 2, I lost Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email Out Of Nowhere Explaining Me Everything W/ Proof. He would pop up once every 5 years and act like super dad. She blames me for him leaving because when he told me he was leaving us for good this time, I kicked him in the back (he had a bad back - it was the only way for 5-6 year old me to even comprehend how to return the bomb he'd dropped on us) and refused to come back out of my room. They made a pact not to discuss their dad, because the 1/2 sister had heard whispers in the family and knew a very PG version of what went on, but she loved her dad and didn't want to know what an absolute jerk he had been in the past. So after the divorce was granted. My parents divorced when I was young and dad got a new family. She recently lost her mother, and said that I was causing pressure/stress in the home, making her 99 Likes, TikTok video from Daily Reddit Stories (@reddit. No one has time for this, as you plainly found out. However, when l was ill and almost died, she wasn’t I think this is true for both my sister and I, and I don't blame her for not questioning our father. 109 Likes, TikTok video from Reddit narrator (@redditnarrator217): “Family Abandoned Me beacuse Sis blames Me for her Divorce, Years later, I get an Email out of nowhere Explaining Me everything w/proof. 1. It’s almost as if he wants me leave him so he can feel better and validate that I’m to blame and he is the victim. In June, I (32M) came home one day from work to my wife (35F) with her vehicle packed. Although, the relationship with her was different then before. Me: So she in jail. Dec 2, 2023 · 350 Likes, TikTok video from Late Night Central (@latenightstoriescentral): “Family abandoned me because sis blames for there divorce - PART 2 (2/3) #fyp #viral #fypシ #RedditStories #StorytellingMagic #NarrativeNook #EpicReads #ViralTales #FYPChallenge #MustRead #PageTurner #RedditRealm #CommunityChronicles #UpvoteWorthy #EngagingNarrative #DigitalStorytelling #TalesFromReddit # Husband blames me for her suicide and said me asking her to let me do more things for my husband was the equivalent of me taking everything away from her (they were almost abnormally close). Idk if this fits into this feed, I apologize in advance if not. aliens): “Family abandoned me because sis blames me for her divorce, years later, i get an email #reddit #aliens #storytime #redditstories #writingprompts”. AITA for CCing all family, friends, and coworkers after my husband divorced me via email? I (47F) woke up yesterday morning to an email from my husband of 21 years (50M) entitled " Working Things Out. I have cared for when she was sick, visited her in hospital. Her folks treated my friend and her sister as if they actually loved them and had their best interests at heart. He came home one day and out of the blue announced he was done with me and our marriage. #reddit #askreddit #redditreadings #askthereddit #redditstories #redditstorytime #storytime #foryou #fypシ #fyp #foryoupage #viral #viralvideo #crazystory”. throwaway. Couldn't have been a legal adoption- but that's another story. Make sure you’re on the same page about what the kids do know and should know about your divorce. If the situation had been reversed I would have believed him about her. Fastforward a bit. My wife Mary’s family has a history of dementia, developing memory issues in their mid to late 50s. TL;DR: Older sister's fiance got to know me, she got mad I am fb friends with him, they fought about it, he called off the wedding and bio mother and sisters blamed and blasted me which I did the same by unloading 11 years of pain on them. Stuck. Her world is crumbling and honestly I can't help her. Sam was 8 and Shaun was 6 at the time. My sister divorced her husband and tried to top herself afterwards. We both had been struggling with depression for years, and I was wanting a divorce at the time. 1K Likes, TikTok video from Chris (@chrisihae7k): “Part2 My family abandoned me because my sister blamed me for her divorce,and a few years later I received an email!#reddit #storytime #redditstories #creepy #foryou #foryourpage”. He's since spent thousands of dollars on my step-siblings' hobbies and competitions but could never be bothered to drive me to my practices. By the end of it Mary was left destitute. Husbands sister is a Narc, blames me for EVERYTHING. Father: Your sister needs a good lawyer she is facing 5 to 6 year in prison this is not funny. After this, he rarely talked to his mom in front of me. Hating myself all the while. I never liked that woman since I felt like it was too soon but I tried respecting her. They used to pay my aunt some money to watch me but when I was 14 that My (24F) sister in law V (31F) is blaming me for her divorce with my brother (34M). so i ruined her life with it #redditstorytime #redditposts #redditmemes #redditpostings #redditreadings #reddittreading I absolutely agree he is pushing me away, bickering, isolating himself. family abandoned me because sis blames me update. nhạc nền - Reddit. #reddit #storytime #redditstories #redditreadings #writingprompts #askreddit #usa”. Update 3original sound - Komodo Dragon. Again lawyer told me since he didnt show up, its on him and i dont have to worry about anything or tell him anything. I was pregnant at that time too. My sister (who is just like my mom) has consistently lied to me, spread rumors about me, lied to get me in trouble (smirking in the background every time it worked), stolen from me, manipulated me, broken my things just to get a reaction, screamed at me, and (last drop) hit me in my own home, in front of my own children, because I was standing in her way. Surrounding yourself with close friends and family that you trust is the safest and most realistic way to cope with abandonment. I hope one day he embraces sobriety for the sake of his children. Again. She met her husband, Brian, her freshman year of college, and they got married seven years later AITA for ruining my brother's marriage because his wife left me at the pool. These relationship dynamics that led to the divorce: go speak with a therapist. Nor does he owe you an “explanation. Her mom, grandmother and several other relatives on her #reddit #redditstories #divorce #podcast #stories #story Family abandoned me because sis blames me for her divorce years later i get an email out of now her MOD. 23. I would rather just walk away and never see them again Because of a false accusation my whole family abandoned me and cut off all relationship with me, 16 years later they tried to reconcile with me. She did it. Long story short, ever since he and my SIL split due to his infidelity, my brother has been bouncing around the place dating random women he meets on the internet. storiescc): “Part 10-Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. After the first 54 Likes, TikTok video from Reddit (@redditstories_us01): “Part 2/4: Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. 340 Likes, TikTok video from Telltales Reddit (@telltales. aliens): “Update 3: Family abandoned me because sis blames me for her divorce, years later, i get an email #reddit #aliens #storytime #redditstories #writingprompts”. YOU ARE NOT RESPONIBLE FOR THE FEELING AND RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN TWO GROWN ADULTS. Of course she believes all this. At the end of this past fall semester things eventually fell apart. She is very messy and hoards and has a very volatile personality. OP, your husband’s problems are not your responsibility. 810 Likes, TikTok video from Chris (@chrisihae7k): “Part3 My family abandoned me because my sister blamed me for her divorce,and a few years later I received an email!#reddit #storytime #redditstories #creepy #foryou #foryourpage #viralvideo”. He's the only guy that's kept on looking after me, making sure I don't try to kill myself. 116 Likes, TikTok video from Reddit (@redditstories_us01): “Part 1/4: Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. I think she was wronged. Basically I've had anger issues because I wasn't taught any realistic venting methods or coping mechanisms or given any kind of reliable emotional support. reddit4): “Part 3/3: Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. “you are not the reason for your parents failed marriage”. I really consider cutting them off again. One time when I was crying in our schools bathroom, he cut classes just to find me, or just recently where my issues hit me again, I was nearly dead if it wasn't for him finding me cutting myself. I’m apparently the only one who needs help. My brother "disowned" our family because we pay attention to his son, who he abandoned. Storytelling. #reddit #redditstories #redditstorytime #askreddit #subwaysurf”. In hindsight and to give her the benefit of the doubt she was dealing with her own major mental health struggles, I remember witnessing her anxiety and infrequent panic attacks from a young age. She is also on reddit and I found her posts and she's accussed me of doing things that I don't recall happening. Told me to never contact him again and to pray God her mercy on my soul. Until them, keep Reach out to friends, family, and community for support, and yes, by all means get the ball rolling on divorce!! What you do is hire a lawyer and get the court to award you 100 percent custody and your husband to start paying support. He didn’t have to do that, he was fully in his rights to hold my behavior against me but by sticking by me he helped me grow as a person and I think we are both better Years after receiving this email, my family abandoned me because my sister blames me for her divorce. I (19F) had surgery a couple days ago to get You may like. I Abandoned my family because my daughter knew about my wife affair for money. My ex and I were together for 6 years. This is essentially a diary entry to get this off my chest for the new year. She was raised since birth being told that her sister was the cause of every single problem in the family. ORIGINAL POST: Everything started about a year ago when my sister Sarah (not real name) suddenly started telling me that she wanted to divorce her husband Eric (not name). My husband was n/c with his crazy older sister. My dad abandoned me but now he wants me to help his new family out. C messaged her telling her she ruined L's life and cut her off. There was a distance between us and I did prioritize other people who cared more about me over her in my life. FIL breaks in and destroys his child's and child's partners stuff. I tell her im two months behind on rent (at this point possibly 3. Before I begin I must say that in a way the story has already concluded or has an "end" so to speak. storiescc): “Part 6-Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. UPDATE IS HERE, the mods wouldn't let me post because this post isn't old enough. One of my cousins did something like this to her little sister when she had a drinking problem after her divorce. I abandoned my family and only after 10 years i realized how bad i hurted them. I’m 22 years old and on April 9, 2018 my husband committed suicide. ( I could help but laugh at that) Father: it's not funny Daxton. The point is, she gave up her 5 year old to be with an asshole. I couldn’t wrap my head around why she would use my kids to hurt me then recently I found out that she has been telling people in the family that I would come on to and try to seduce her husband. Please read Call to action - renewed protests starting on July 1st and new posts at r/ModCord or r/Save3rdPartyApps for up-to-date information. And where his mother swore he was staying at. Nov 25, 2023 · Dear Prudence, Me and my younger sister, Lauren, have been close our whole lives (me F31, her F28). we then end up getting married because of genuine love. Yes OP is an asshole. Said everything bad that has happened in his life over the past year is my fault. 43 Likes, TikTok video from redditusaforU1 (@redditusaforu1): “Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email | part 2 #redditstories #reddit #redditreadings”. I have not seen her since, we have talked on the phone infrequently (about every 2 weeks). My husband’s family blames me for his death. What ensued was three months of sheer hell wherein he claimed to be "trying" to fix our marriage but was actually texting another woman and just going through the 21 Likes, TikTok video from slim (@slim34030): “Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. When I was 5 my father passed away and she remarried my step-“dad” when I was 8. original sound - Reddit Stories - Daily Reddit Stories. My dad has PTSD, he served in a Croatian war, and my mom has a narcissistic personality disorder. Need advice. 7K Likes, 221 Comments. I could never hurt them the way they have hurt me, even after everything that's happened. Those traits caused our mother to leave her own home and move in with me- she basically abandoned her house to my sister because she couldn't handle my sister but wasn't willing to evict her or call the police or anyone else to help. But you really can’t expect her to be any better. Writing. Apparently he chose to leave her place off and on the past 9 months. #reddit #askreddit #shorts #shortsfeedignore:reddit,subreddit,askreddit,raskreddit,ask reddit,funny reddit,reddit cringe,updoot reddit,reddit on tap,reddit s You need to talk to your ex about this, first of all. She blames me for her abortion. My sister announced her pregnancy before me so when I announced my pregnancy she was absolutely livid. This is the truth, and the reality. Stick with Dad and Grandma. We had been married for 3 years and although we loved each other so much we fought a lot and it made me more depressed. See more videos about My Family Broke Me, Angel Agostosa, Jay Versace Eating Original Video, Lids Screaming Cause Baby Holding Elf, Lego Fortnite, Mz Netta Ts. The little sister was at the beginning, very reliant on help from family. If it's all a lie, I'll be disowned from him. A history of abuse, drug addiction, fraud, abandonment of her children, and general shittyness led to them becoming n/c, but recently, my husband has tried reaching out to her casually after some major guilting from his mother. I had been in contact with my grandmother all morning, the only person in my family who believes me one hundred percent. Jumping her sisters child care from 3 to 8. She then spent the rest of her life resenting her step daughter. original sound - Komodo Dragon. Though he met her a few times without telling me) He began to argue with me more, blaming me for his mom's death, that I was what kept him from meeting his mom and I must be happy now that she's gone. storiescc): “Part 5-Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. Me: What do you want me to do about it. Subway Surfer. SIL lies and blames you not a stranger or 1 night stand, THE SISTERS HUSBAND. My sister was diagnosed with multiple autoimmune conditions and needed When at around 9th grade I started spending the night at my best friend's house, I was shocked to see a normal, loving family interacting. I didn't support him Your sister and your mom are toxic and are blaming you (and your mom is blaming your dad) for their bad actions. Be happy he doesn't want to co-parent, but get the money needed to raise your kids. I (28M) am a white american, when i was a few months old my bio parents passed away and i was taken in by my adoptive parents. Even before the divorce, my dad spent his spare time either volunteering for charities or playing videogames. A year after my mom passed away my dad remarried, I was 12 (now 19) when he did so. I was 6 now I'm 22. Except Shaun was not mine. Now all the memories I have throughout my life are tainted by the pain I feel, my entire life is one bad joke. There are maybe 5 pics of me from the ages of 3-16 When I was 11 and he was 13. Then my sister called. Feb 17, 2024 · In this emotional video, I share my journey of being abandoned by my family after my sister blamed me for her divorce. I always felt like I didn't really belong, and Jan 28, 2024 · Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce #lovestories #cheatingspouse #storytime #reddit #redditstories #redditrelationship I mourn the family I thought I had, the family that I thought would always have my back. I feel like after what happened I just need to lay it all out. I was also able to track down the baby daddy and sued her for paternity fraud. She left 1 week after we got a new puppy. She blames me for her choice to get pregnant. - My Dad: My dad eventually came back into my life when I was 9 because my mom introduced me to him. it still doesn’t feel real but I feel scared and guilty. She broke down and told my grandfather, who sobbed to me over the phone. My mom blames me for everything that happens. I did another bad thing here. ADMIN MOD. : r/DecidingToBeBetter. Part 2nhạc nền - redditusaforU1. So I am 19, female, and I am a middle child (you already know where this is going); anyways, I have 4 siblings, so there is five of us in total. ”. After years of feeling isolated and blamed for her si We had two children Sam and Shaun. 70 Likes, TikTok video from Reddit (@redditstories_us01): “Part 4/4: Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. long lost family. I became very close with her family and siblings. she selflessly offers to contribute with her money in savings. 79 Likes, TikTok video from Daily Reddit Stories (@reddit. Me she mostly ignored. No one. He found out. He is allowed once a month visitation through the DRO. It felt sudden and out of the blue because they had been doing pretty okay prior to this, they did stuff together a lot like going fishing and he did a lot of projects for She was terrible to my sister. Because if I was to say anything I'd make things worse. Today was one of the billion times that my mom blames me for something that she did. No matter what, do not go anywhere your mother or your sister is for your own sake. Part2 original sound - Chris. I'll give some context first as the situation spans almost 2 decades. Me: Yeah my sister the one who calls me her faggot brother when I'm not around Me: I am not getting her a dress from work and that final Mom: Fine but the least you can do is help buy her one Me: Are you kidding me At this point I hang up. I threatened to call the cops on her for abandonment, and she tried to physically intimidate me by leaning over me and yelling in my face. We aim to keep this a safe space. My mother met my father and after 8 years of lovey dovey they had me. He is a grown man who knows help is available to him. #redditstories #askreddit #reddit_tiktok #redditslideshow #redditstorytime #storytelling #imissyou #im”. I've posted before about my nearly 40 year old half-brother's abandonment of his son, my nephew. L messaged her calling her a lying whore and that she will tell everyone what my sister has done. Also, time does help, after the breakup I was suicidal due to all the remorse and blame I felt. Before reading this I must say this, it is long but for the purpose of context. Married 3 years, together 7. Years later, I receive an unexpected email from her, sparking a She said she was busy and would return my call later. We were raised not to question him. I (19)F never had my dad (39)M in my life. To this day, he seems very indifferent towards me, and never She blames me for her abortion. It’s incredibly inappropriate to talk to teenagers about personal, adult family problems precisely because they don’t have the emotional maturity to handle that information sensitively. 2. So I Ruined Her Life Hi, so this is my first time writing, and being here. Three years ago, I abandoned my son after my divorce. My wife cheated on me. The problem started when I got pregnant. My sister also holds stuff against me from our growing up. You may like. My sister had effectively disowned everyone in the family. Here's my problem. Some years ago my brother got married to V, she was super nice and sweet to me. Aitah: for going no contact on my sister, after she blamed me for my separation. My brother started SA me. Even if no one reads this or if people make light out of it. I would have done exactly what your brother did, shitcanned the whole thing. I spent a few weekends over at his place on various summers off of school, and he mostly ignored me and his other kids. She call back a few time. Posted by u/Vivid_Hunter1359 - 3 votes and no comments My sister first accused me of calling DHS on her, then threatened to call the cops on me for bringing her kids home, then tried fake-crying and guilt-tripping me to take the kids back home with me. #reddit #askreddit #redditreadings #askthereddit #redditstories #redditstorytime #storytime #foryou #fypシ #fyp #foryoupage #viral #viralvideo #crazystory 97 Likes, TikTok video from Daily Reddit Stories (@reddit. I never tried to seduce him, I never wanted any of that to happen. fully believing thats the case). So I Ruined Her Life with it. There were differences, I made my fair share of mistakes, but I always felt like she My STBX husband abandoned me emotionally six months ago and physically three months ago. she was so vicious that when my sister had her period, she would ball up toilet paper and then hide it because she was terrified of her. It can be hard. Having a family therapist would probably help too. Which kills me, because I am a caring person and as you read I hope you will know that I tried to do everything with no malicious intent and just no intent for hurt. Like the title implies I’ve looking at the possibility of family drama because my younger sister and her husband are having a baby. She started saying that she didn't 13. Aug 21, 2023 · Take action. Trigger Warnings: mentions of dementia, infidelity, financial abuse, emotional abuse, theft. Family abandoned me because sis blames me for her divorce, years later, i get an email out of nowhere explaining me everything w/proof. So lets begin with the good. But I just ignore them. At this point in my life I'm happy, I've surrounded myself with good people who support me, and I have written her out of my life. I have been supportive, but he won’t let me in, open up, seek help. this whole situation is so bizarre that I still can't really process it. Said if he had not married me he is sure his mother would still be alive. . In mid 2016, shortly before my own wedding, my mom let me know my sister had finally reached out. Screaming, silent treatment. He’s told me that I am a failure and I will never be anything in life. My mom had not had any contact with her either. I am 26 and she is 28. The blame lies squarely on her mother for allowing her to participate in these conversations. He lied to my cousins mom telling her he payed for my prom ( I didn’t even go to my prom ) and he payed my senior dues ect. Original Post - Oct 27, 2023. I’m sorry, but this is coming off as a long winded way of saying his alcoholism is somehow her fault because she’s keeping her kids safe. This is I only had 1 friend actually, let's say his name is Blake. Her dad actually complimented her mom, nudged her lovingly and hugged her. Infertility affects both people. My adoptive parents are african americans and already had 4 kids before they adopted me. When I was 9 I was sent away to live with my father’s sister who lived states away because her husband didn’t want me to live there anymore. Originalton - Reddit narrator. I will keep this as short as possible but basically I'm a 43M, I got my childhood sweet heart 43F pregnant and had my daughter 25F, she was considered a miracle child because the pregnancy was that difficult for my wife that she was never able to have kids blames me for her failed marriage. She was told since she was born that her sister is an awful lazy annoying worthless human. Which to me is fine, they have a house and well-paying jobs and have been saving for this for a few years just to get a head start. storiescc): “Part 4-Family Abandoned Me Because Sis Blames Me For Her Divorce, Years Later, I Get An Email. The finalization of the divorce hit my mom like a truck and she spiraled into postpartum depression. though the fact is not lost on me that she wouldve had to Seriously these in laws are INSANE. It happens that I moved out of my apartment a few months ago and back to my mom's place with her and my sister. I remember on Christmas I showed up for like an hour and then went off to spend the rest of it with my girlfriend and her family. I can't remember everything, there's some things I can remember, like taking her halloween candy, taking her clothes, taking jewlery, telling her to leave me and my friends alone, to stay off my side of the room. I’m so sorry for all this garbage you’re having to go through, not your fault. See the unfiltered opinions of strangers. Discover videos related to family abandoned me because sis blames me for divorce on TikTok. If it's all true, he'll hold me and never let me go. Warning: Long post. TikTok video from Komodo Dragon (@history. When I found out I was heartbroken and angry. I stopped her and supported her through a tough time, as any sister ought to do. #reddit #askreddit #shorts #shortsfeedignore:reddit,subreddit,askreddit,raskreddit,ask reddit,funny reddit,reddit cringe,updoot reddit,reddit on tap,reddit s Reddit has abandoned the users, the moderators, and countless people who support an ecosystem built on Reddit itself. And blames me (and Satan who is apparently controlling me) if I get mad at her for doing all that shit. You should progressively take steps to get close to those individuals on your own or with the aid of a competent counselor or a mental health professional and rely on them for increasingly important items Family abandoned me. i decline out of pride and the thought that ill fix the situation. Maybe have a meeting with your oldest first, then everybody, and try to talk about it in a way that’s respectful. " Very deceptive title because instead of arranging a meeting or even a phone call, my husband goes on a four paragraph soapbox speech about I am my mother’s oldest biological child. Get that nasty secret off your chest or simply use this as a place to vent. Yet she doesn't see this and that kills me. I’d pray to God to give me the strength to do the right thing or to somehow show me a solution but I never did. The works. Father: Drop the charges. I realized that I am still loved by these two people and they are my real family. Me: I have My (M50) wife (F48) abandoned me two months ago to find herself. 5M views. original sound - Telltales Reddit. At sixteen she shouldn’t even know about any of this. Me: Yeah it kind of is. It was the best feeling in the world. Said he hated me. She never did. I confirmed with DRO. 96 Likes, TikTok video from Daily Reddit Stories (@reddit. rd gv ly hx jn qm uk jj bw lq